Dealing With Depression

by Karl Perera

Are you looking for ways to cope with depression? Then read on...

Dealing with depression is not easy and in order to cope follow these steps:

Understand your depression

There are many symptoms including extreme sadness and unhappiness. Everyone feels unhappy sometimes but if you experience hopelessness for longer than two weeks then you are probably depressed.

You may feel anger and stress inside too. Another major symptom is tiredness and lack of sleep.

You can take my depression test to see if you are depressed. If so, it is time to move on to the second step.

Talk about your problem

Talking about your feelings of unhappiness, hopelessness and all the other emotions inside you will help you to understand what you need to do. Another person, especially if a friend, can offer a different perspective on your problem. They can make suggestions or encourage you to take certain action to do something that will help you to stop feeling so sad and miserable. Friends are great at motivating you.

One of the worst problems of depression is suffering alone. When you are so miserable and hopeless everything seems negative and a waste of time. Friends can change that because they care about you. Friends give you what you most need - someone listening, someone sharing your problems and the care that they show you can break the chains around you. Talk to someone who cares.

Get help

We have just talked about friends as a source of support. There are other forms of support you can turn to. You can visit a doctor to check out the symptoms of your depression and for advice or you can seek professional help. One suggestion I recommend is online counselling which can be both convenient and inexpensive. As with all forms of professional guidance it is important to find a good counsellor you can trust.

Of course you can also find a wealth of information and support online in the form of websites, like this one, from forums and support groups online and offline. The important thing is to take action and share your experiences and feelings in dealing with depression. 

Change your thinking

Many doctors and psychologists will tell you that your depression is a chemical imbalance in your brain or that your problem could be genetic (passed down in your family). In some cases this can be true but for most people depression is caused by thinking patterns resulting from bad events in your life. If you have depression but can't figure out why it could also be due to stress or anger.

In any case, the common problem of extreme unhappiness is not normally that everything is really horrible. You think it is. If you can change the way you think about yourself and your life, you can see hope where before there was none. Your thinking is very negative when you are depressed. So everything seems hopeless.

Positive thinking, smiling, talking to a friend, exercise, getting outdoors - these are all steps that can help. Anything that changes your negative thinking is going to make you happier. 

Help yourself recover

Whatever advice you get, or even if you decide to help yourself there are many things that can support your recovery. Here are a few things that will make dealing with depression less painful:

• Reading - inspirational books and self help books are priceless and can make a big difference. Check out my recommended depression books for some powerful reading.
• Friends - we've already covered this one. Don't suffer alone - friends bring happiness
• Music - relaxing music imediately alters your brain waves and is a great way to de-stress
• Diet - eat well. Concentrate on fresh fruit and healthy vegetables. Treat your body well and your mind will respond positively.
• Sleep - this is so important, a good night's sleep is also absolutely priceless. Lessen stress in your life and you should sleep better. Discover more about sleep and depression.
• Work - keeping busy keeps your mind off your problems. Not too much though or you'll become too stressed.
• Free time - make sure to set aside free time to do what you want. What makes you happy? What are you most interested in? Why aren't you doing it more?
• Balance - work, free-time, family. Your lifestyle choices are so important.

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